Although she has not featured in too many home movies, Iretiola Doyle is
unarguably an exciting and talented actress. Her roles in several
award-winning TV series have, indeed, made her one of the favourite
Nollywood stars. In an interview with The Nation, she talks about the
rumour that trailed her role in Tinsel and her idiosyncrasy and
daughter’s impending wedding, among other issues.
IS there any particular reason you prefer to wear your natural hair?
I just got fed up. I cut my hair for several reasons. First, I was
bored. Second, we were all beginning to look alike: if someone was tall,
slim and had her back to you, you could mistake her for someone else.
And then, my character in Tinsel, Shila Ade Williams, was coming back
after a long break and I wanted her to look different. So, I said, okay,
let’s chop it off a bit.
Most women seem to be embracing the natural look…
(Cuts in) Personally, the older I get, the more I feel the need to do
things more natural, instead of exposing myself to chemicals and other
substances that one really doesn’t know their origin or what has been
added to them.
A lot of people, especially in entertainment, find it hard to come to
terms with their complexion. But I wonder why you don’t seem to be
toeing the same line?
The truth is I grew up a tomboy. At the time my mates were learning how
to do eye-shadow and lips, I couldn’t be bothered. So, I’ve never really
been into ‘feferity’. And when I did begin to do ‘feferity’, I’d come
to terms with my looks. I think I look just okay. I don’t think that
having to go three shades lighter is necessary for me. I am
self-assured. I know that who I am is not necessarily based on how I
look, but what is inside of me and what I can bring to the table at
every given time.
Having said that, do I take care of myself? Yes, I do. I wear sun
screen, use moisturiser and scrub my body. I’m an actress; so, what am I
selling? This is my tool and I have to take maximum care of it. I have a
problematic skin, so I go the extra mile. I do facials and I know what
works. That era of trial and error is long past. I like to keep it
simple. I think all the other things you have been given, like makeup ad
clothes, are only to enhance what you have naturally been given. I like
what I have been given. I have been given a lot, so I don’t like to
cover that up with too many extras.
What has been happening with Oge?
Thank you for asking this question. We are in production. We have
already shot materials for five episodes, but we are going for 13. The
fact that I’m producing hasn’t stopped me from taking on other
commitment; so, I’m joggling the time. But hopefully, after Hear Word!, I
have a wedding. My first daughter is getting married, so I’m planning
that. After Hear Word!, we gonna have a really lovely wedding.
Thereafter, I can focus just on Oge. Hopefully, before the last quarter
of this year, Oge will be back on air.
So, you will soon be a grandmother?
Yes, that’s cool. We will redefine the word grandmother.
How does it feel to know your daughter is getting married?
My daughter is 27. She has done all things well through Christ Jesus. If
she wasn’t getting married at 27, you won’t say she’s too old, so to
speak. But how does it feel? My real emotion is gratitude. I just wake
up every morning, put one foot in front of the other and thank God that I
am here, doing all of the things I do. So, my main emotion is that of
gratitude.
What will you describe as the toughest part of bringing up a female child?
I thank God she is a graduate. She is a stylist with Ruff and Tumbles.
She is a good girl. She has her own business that she’s been running,
since she was an undergraduate. The most difficult thing, for me, in
raising a young girl is allowing her to be that person she has been
called to be and moulding her in such a way that she has the right set
of value – and not putting shackles on her at the same time. The truth
of the matter is that a lot of our culture and tradition are designed to
put shackles on our girls and I will not be a party to that.
Could you explain better?
My mother and I are two different generations. Therefore, her way of
talking and method of raising children were rather different. In their
time, they did the best they could do, given the tools they had. But
this is a whole different generation. I made sure that I put the burdens
of communication on me. I am the one with the message that I need to
communicate, so it’s completely up to me to deliver that message in a
way that my children can receive it. I made talking a very important
point in my home. We talk about things.
The only person who gets spanked anymore really is the little girl – she
is going to be 10. And I can’t remember the last time she actually got
spanked. We engage in open communication. Besides, I’m not afraid to
apologise to my kids, if I feel that I have been unjust or unfair to
them. For me, what is most important is achieving my mission. I don’t
want to be right; I want peace. I want well-behaved children, so I am
going to find the best way possible to achieve that. Having said all
that, when it is time to use the big stick, I no dey fear that one too.
So, acting-wise, what have you been up to?
You haven’t been watching the right movies. My last film was about a
year ago. It was nominated for several awards across the line and I
actually got the Best Actress award for it last year.
What movie are you talking about?
Torn.
Was it at the cinema then?
Yes, it was in the cinema for a month. It will soon be on DVD any moment
from now. Torn was produced and directed by Sneeze, better known as
Moses Inwang. The plaque is resting on my mantle at home. It was from
Golden Icon Academy Movie Awards (GIAMA) in Houston.
But before Torn, not much was seen of you. Is it that you have been very choosy these days?
Now, I am; but initially, I wasn’t. This question comes across all the
time. It’s just that as fate would have it, my acting credentials are
mostly earned on TV and stage as opposed to films. But I’m open to doing
movies and the people who want me in their films come to look for me.
So, that is how it works.
Are you working on any at the moment?
I have one that has been hanging mid-production. We have been going back
and forth. The location is in Calabar. I don’t know if it is half-way
done or not. But we shot some scenes. Are there more movies in the
pipeline? Well, what you should be looking out for are television
series. Before the end of the year, you will see me in about three other
television series. The one you should look out for is called Diary. It
is written, produced and directed by Victor Tenchent, who is also a
Tinsel director and writer. It will make its debut on EbonyLive on May
31 at 10:30pm.
What movie actually brought you to the limelight?
You see, I’m fortunate and that is the part I cannot take credit for. I
can’t take credit for this part. The opportunities I have been given in
this career have been amazing. Then, some of the biggest opportunities
are ones I didn’t even go looking for. I’m just fortunate to have been
part of some really great productions that stick in people’s minds.
Before I shot Torn, the last one I did was think Sitanda. Maybe I had
shot two in-between, but they haven’t come out. But they are just
evergreen movies that stick in people’s minds. Would I say that I pick
them? No, I didn’t.
This is the era when actors are turning producers/directors. Are you looking in that direction?
I’ve always been a producer. I have produced my own programme. Oge is my
production. Will I produce a drama or something to do with drama? Yes.
But that’s all I’m going to say about that at this point.
What inspired the concept, Oge?
Oh, it is fourteen years now! Fifteen years ago, my executive producer
and boss said to me, “You know, we’ve been commissioned to produce two
shows; so, you go and find out how you are going to design a fashion
show.” That was the brief. But a few months into producing the show, it
opened my mind to the amazing things being produced in Nigeria by
Nigerians. And this was the time when both Ankara and Nigerian designs
were looked down upon.
These were the days of Laballena, Rose of Sharon, Frank Oshodi, Jimmy
Delaja and Funmi Ajila. I was like, how can we have all of these big
names and people don’t appreciate them? So, it became an exciting thing
for me. Oge became the platform to promote Nigerians who were doing
great things. And from there, it became a sort of inspirational piece
for young Nigerians. I then realised that creativity wasn’t necessarily
dead; I could actually make a living from being creative. First, it was
just a job; then, it became a passion that we needed to expose some of
these things to the rest of the world.
How did it influence your own sense of fashion?
It made me further embrace the distinctiveness of being African.
Frankly, prior to joining Tinsel, the way I wore my hair was in braided
all- back-Ghana weaving. That was my personal style; and it was so
beautiful. You walk into a room with an outfit and everybody feels that
has to be a Nigerian. So, it gave me more confidence in being an
individual and embracing what is ours.
You rarely grace events; so, are you a ‘home girl’ of sorts?
Frankly, I am a ‘home girl’. But the truth of the matter is I work long
odd hours. Every Tinsel night, everybody who is on Tinsel, especially
the lead characters and the crew, work long odd hours. So, if it’s not
an event that is either being hosted by a dear friend or someone I
respect a lot or I have been paid a lot of money to be there, I would
rather be at home with my kids.
Again, you and your husband rarely appear together at social events…
We are both busy people. In any one given weekend, we are both invited
to three or four different events, so we share it. If you have seen one,
you have seen the other. That way, everybody is happy. Where is Oga? He
couldn’t make it, but I’m here and the same thing goes for him. So, we
just have to balance it out.
What was it like working with Victor Oladokun on Tinsel?
My ‘husband’ (laughs).
At some point, it was rumoured that you had left your husband for him.
The rumour generated after we shot and aired the marriage scene. That
was one of the most- talked about situations in the entire series. It
was so well done. Even my husband’s friends were calling him and asking
him what happened between you guys and he would be like, ‘no, it’s
drama’. The fact that people think we are actually a couple just
buttresses the fact that we’ve done a great job. Working with him is
fun. We are partners in crime, we are partners in success, and he is my
friend.
Did the rumour make you bond more?
If you are expected to play someone’s spouse, it makes sense. You will
be wise to find a way to bond with that person, so that the chemistry is
real and you can get the job done. We are very good friends and his
wife is my colleague and sister too. In fact, his wife is a costumier in
Tinsel.
So, when the rumour started coming, how did you both feel about it?
We are professionals. Even with the person you are not playing spouse
with, when you see a funny scenario, you laugh and talk about it. We
roll with the punches and we do what is expected of us.
What would you say has kept your marriage going all these years?
It will be 20 years, next year, since we got married.
Would that be coming with a big celebration?
Maybe, maybe not. Maybe we’ll wait for another three years.
Why?
Don’t worry! When the time comes, you will know.
So, what’s your winning formula in marriage?
In marriage, I don’t have a winning formula. I really don’t like being
put on a pedestal because it takes grace. We all have where the shoes
pinch us. It’s not perfect all the time; it’s grace. So, you don’t point
fingers at people. If you don’t walk a mile in someone else’s shoes,
you may not understand what the person is going through. So, I will just
thank God for His grace.
But what is your own contribution towards the success of the marriage?
You have to be patient, you have to be open-minded and you have to stop
having a knee-jerk reaction to some situations. It is wrong to react to
everything that happens. When something happens, you think it through.
Sometimes, things are not always what they seem. Open communication is
important. You have to build a bridge of open communication. Marriage
is a decision; otherwise, there are 10,000 and one reasons to leave a
marriage, from something as stupid as snoring at night to something more
fundamental as being beaten.