Friday 31 January 2014
Osita Iheme is our Weekend Spotlight
He Abandoned His Fiancee While She Was Pregnant. Now He Wants The Babies And Not Their Mother!
When a lady accepts to date a man unconditionally, give you her heart, her body and soul, her time, be with you through thick and thin especially when you are a nobody, the worst thing that man can do to her is take her for granted. It kills us, it really is damaging. Not to talk of when she now gets pregnant for you, and you now abandon her with the babies. Only to resurface years later to claim 'your right'!! Very annoying!
Adaobi shared this really painful story on the internet and I would love we discuss it here. What would you do if you were in this situation, dearies? Or what's your advice for Adaobi's aunty?
Here's Adaobi's true life story:
This is a war raging in my extended family now.
An aunty of mine dated a guy for seven years (2005 -2011). During this period, everybody thought they will later get married, but along the line, my aunty got pregnant, and had a set of
twins in 2011. Some months after she put to bed, the fiance left the country for Belgium. For the 3years he was away, my aunty singlehandedly trained the twins, and is still training them alone. Her parents kinda rejected her because of what she did - having children outside wedlock.
The problem now is, the father of the twins is back, and wants custody of the children. He claimed he can't marry my aunty because she is ibo, that he is the first son, so the parents said he has to marry an Iteskiri woman. My aunty refused to let go off the kids. Her father said he can't have the kids unless he marries the daughter.
Many suitors had come her way, but when they find out she has sons, they don't come back again. She is not getting any younger, she is 29, gainfully employed.
People are asking her to release the boys to their father so that she can marry, she refused. The matter is at welfare now. My aunty has been hiding the boys for the past one month, the boys are in our house because the man and his family want the boys at all cost.
What do you all think? She should release the boys to their father? My aunty's stand is if the man rejected her, he should as well reject the children. Do you think she is doing the right thing? Me, I don't think she is.
Wande Coal Finally Talks About His 5 Years Old Son
Just like Iceprince, 9ice, Wizkid before they all finally opened up, Wande has always denied he had a love child, despite the so many reports that said he had one.
But in a recent interview , Wande finally came clean. He revealed that indeed he has a son, though the public don't know about this. That he wasn't keeping it a secret cos he was proud of his boy, but that he decided to keep that aspect of his life private.
more gist coming soon
Wande Coal Finally Talks About His 5 Years Old Son
Just like Iceprince, 9ice, Wizkid before they all finally opened up, Wande has always denied he had a love child, despite the so many reports that said he had one.
But in a recent interview with E24-7 MAGAZINE, Wande finally came clean. He revealed that indeed he has a son, though the public don't know about this. That he wasn't keeping it a secret cos he was proud of his boy, but that he decided to keep that aspect of his life private.
The exclusive interview will soon be published. And I'll be bringing the gist here for y'all.
Wande Coal Finally Talks About His 5 Years Old Son
Just like Iceprince, 9ice, Wizkid before they all finally opened up, Wande has always denied he had a love child, despite the so many reports that said he had one.
But in a recent interview with E24-7 MAGAZINE, Wande finally came clean. He revealed that indeed he has a son, though the public don't know about this. That he wasn't keeping it a secret cos he was proud of his boy, but that he decided to keep that aspect of his life private.
The exclusive interview will soon be published. And I'll be bringing the gist here for y'all.
Wande Coal Finally Talks About His 5 Years Old Son
Just like Iceprince, 9ice, Wizkid before they all finally opened up, Wande has always denied he had a love child, despite the so many reports that said he had one.
But in a recent interview with E24-7 MAGAZINE, Wande finally came clean. He revealed that indeed he has a son, though the public don't know about this. That he wasn't keeping it a secret cos he was proud of his boy, but that he decided to keep that aspect of his life private.
The exclusive interview will soon be published. And I'll be bringing the gist here for y'all.
Wande Coal Finally Talks About His 5 Years Old Son
Just like Iceprince, 9ice, Wizkid before they all finally opened up, Wande has always denied he had a love child, despite the so many reports that said he had one.
But in a recent interview with E24-7 MAGAZINE, Wande finally came clean. He revealed that indeed he has a son, though the public don't know about this. That he wasn't keeping it a secret cos he was proud of his boy, but that he decided to keep that aspect of his life private.
The exclusive interview will soon be published. And I'll be bringing the gist here for y'all.
Breaking News: Nollywood Loses Another Popular And Energitic Actor
Diamond Celebrities contacted Teco Benson who has featured him in most of his movies… Here is what he told Don Saint:
“His death was least expected. He is a brilliant Actor full of life with unique interpretation to roles. It simply shows that anybody can go any time and people especially role models should begin to leave footprints in the sands of time. I feel for the mum because Charles strikes me like the only son. May his gentle soul rest in peace and may God give the family the fortitude to bear the loss” Teco benson.
The actor also featured in “Explosion”…
May his soul rest in peace!!!
culled from Diamond celebrities blog
Tuesday 28 January 2014
Queen Latifah Officiates Same Sex Weddings at the Grammys
Photo: President Jonathan & CBN Governor mend fences at Davos
My wife is posing as a single lady on holiday in the UK
I'm in a 3yr old marriage with a 2year old handsome son, I must say he looks like his gorgeous mum. I recently sent both of them to the UK on holiday but I wasn't comfortable with it as she insisted on staying with her "town girl" friend that doesn't have a job but she's relatively comfortable (raised eye brows) and she's never in a steady relationship, unfortunately my wife, most times looks up to her. When I complain about some of the revealing outfits my wife wears, she often says "Tope wore something similar and everyone loved it on instagram, no one said it was bad". She's always comparing her self to the likes of Tope, single girls that are some what wayward. You see, after child birth, I noticed that my wife's dressing changed for the worst, I could sense that she wanted to prove she was still hot. She gets a kick out of her friends calling her sexy mama and all sorts and I keep telling her she is married and she should tone it down especially to her place of work. Continue...Well, back to the UK where my wife and son currently are. This past weekend, she said she was going out for a party with the Tope. I said fine as long as she dresses decently. She sent a pic of what she wore just before she left the house, a nice leather looking black dress. Not too short but a little too tight but I let it slide. She posed innocently with her hands behind her back, I thought it was cute even though the pic wasn't so clear as it was outside. The next day, I was on instagram and I noticed Tope had uploaded pictures from their night out, I decided to check and guess what, my innocent looking wife wasn't look innocent at all. The dress was actually semi transparent, the sides were exposed showing that she didn't wear undies as well as the cleavage area, NO BRA!! My heart rate rapidly increased and my hands were shaking holding on to my android. Matters got worse when I noticed she didn't have her ring on, that's why she had her hands behind her in the pic. I immediately rang her up at the top of my voice asking her to explain why she didn't have her ring on and why she dressed like a tramp and that I had seen the pics on instagram. She was silent for a while, she then said she didn't want to lose the ring that's why she didn't wear it and in fact she had kept it away as soon as she got to the UK because she would be doing a lot of shopping and didn't want to lose it.
Her excuse for wearing the dress was that the club was dark and no one would have noticed her dress. Can you imagine her utterances, coming from a married woman and a mum, NO RING in a foreign land for over a week!. I have called her names and decided to block my debit card that's with her, at least the bank alerts will stop. I have insisted that she leaves Tope's house with immediate effect because for all I know, she may have set my naïve wife up with a guy and that she should get on the next available flight back to Lagos. She is saying i'm over reacting and that I don't want her to enjoy her youth, at 28.. I am mad angry is an understatement. Those images are stuck in my head for life. Fellow LIB readers, am I over reacting?
culled from linda ikeji's blog
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